One Month Anniversary

Today marks one month of being married. In some ways, it feels like it's been ten years and in other ways it still feels brand new.

I think the best and the worse part about being married is sharing. I've (Desiree) been single for a LONG time and EXTREMELY independent. I like my stuff, my space, my time, and my thoughts. It's been hard to let go of all those things. The hardest part is being completely transparent with Jeff. I'm used to thinking/sorting through things on my own before confiding in/seeking counsel of others to assist in the sort. Jeff also has a tough time remembering to include me in making plans (he's been flying solo for a couple of years, too) that involve both of us. He's used to planning for one and now there's two to consider. We both ask that you'd pray for us in the area of communication.

Another tough area we tackle is church. While single both of us attended great churches, though similar in doctrinal issues, stylistically they differ...in teaching, music, and serving styles. It's a struggle over saying goodbye to our spiritual homes and families. Pray for wisdom and guidance.

We do appreciate all the support that our family and friends have offered during our whirlwind over the past 8 months.